Let's face it, the mere mention of "family photography session" can send shivers down any parent's spine. Visions of forced smiles, beautiful clothes dirtied on the way, and toddler tantrums dance in our heads. But what if I told you it didn't have to be that way? What if family photos could be an enjoyable experience for everyone involved, even (gasp!) the kids?
Fear not, stressed-out parents! With a little planning and the right approach, you can achieve the holy grail of family photography: a no-stress session filled with genuine smiles and happy memories. Here are 7 tips to help in capturing those picture-perfect moments without the meltdown.
1. Find your photographer soulmate:
This is key. Ditch the stiff, traditional portrait studio vibes and seek out a photographer who gets your family's energy. Look for someone who specializes in relaxed, candid shots and prioritizes fun over formality. You will still get those perfect sit and smile photos for grandma but you’ll also end up with cherished memories and a more pleasant experience. If you have small children make sure your photographer is experienced, not just with photography, but with photographing children. Being able to take gorgeous photos of willing adults is not the same as being able to wrangle tiny humans. Same with any unique quality your family might have, like neurodivergence and special needs.
2. Location, location, location:
Studio sessions don’t have to be sterile. Find a photographer whose creativity shines wherever they shoot. Indoor sessions can be location-based but even backdrops can be made interesting by a creative photographer. The studio experience not your family’s jam? Embrace the great outdoors! A park, your backyard, or even your favorite downtown area can be the perfect setting for capturing natural interactions and genuine smiles with a background that is part of your family's story.
3. Ditch the Pinterest pressure:
Embrace the imperfections, the silly faces, and the unexpected moments – those are the ones you'll truly treasure. Trust your photographer. If you took your time to hire the right one trust her in her creative process. This is not a performance, it's a family outing! Play games, tell jokes, splash in the creek, chase butterflies – whatever gets your family laughing and interacting naturally. The photographer will be there to capture those genuine moments of joy and smiles that happen naturally. Remember, it's about capturing memories, love, laughter, and the unique spirit of your family.
4. Keep it short and sweet:
Attention spans, especially those of little ones, are limited. Don't drag out the session until everyone's frazzled. Plan for a shorter session focused on capturing a few key locations, outfits, or interactions.
5. Snacks are your friend (and so is respecting your normal napping schedule):
Hangry meltdowns are no fun for anyone. Pack plenty of snacks and drinks to keep everyone fueled and happy. A happy tummy equals a happy subject! And try to schedule sessions around baby, toddler (and husband) naptimes. Grumpy humans are not as nearly as photogenic as happy ones.
6. Embrace the unexpected:
Things rarely go according to plan, especially with kids involved. Don't sweat the small stuff! A spilled ice cream cone or a muddy shoe can make for some of the most hilarious and memorable photos. And what truly needs fixing but can’t be on-site can often be fixed with my Photoshop magic later on.
7. Get everyone involved:
Let your older siblings and hesitant teenagers help choose the location or outfits. Give littles a job that makes them feel important. This creates a sense of ownership and excitement that will translate into happier subjects.
By following these tips, you can transform your family photography session from a stressful ordeal to a fun-filled adventure. So ditch the drama, embrace the laughter, and capture the true essence of your family – perfectly imperfect and wonderfully loved.
Now go forth and have those precious moments documented! Your future selves, and your children, will thank you for it.
Could I be your photographer soulmate? Let’s find out!